Mastering Self Control: The lost key to Prosperity

Self- control is something we all need to move forward in life but it’s one of the hardest things to master. To step into the fullness of who we were made to be, we have to become a master over how we “feel” at any given time. It has to be conscious. You absolutely cannot be led by emotion alone or you will quickly find yourself going off path. When I think of self-control/discipline and how I see young people in the sucka space most, it is surely in 3 key areas. Sex, eating, and exercise. I use these because when kept in check, they can provide many benefits that can put you in position to prosper in life.

In today’s day and age, sex is everywhere. Sadly, it seems like our youth, as many adults, engage before they understand the full scope of the effects. They still have the naive thought that "it's just pleasure". This is not to bash them as a person, but one may completely miss finding their life partner all because they are unable control their sexual appetite. That may lead them to putting their immaturity and lack of discipline on front street for a potential partner to see and judge, which in many cases is a turn off to someone pursuing marriage. Don’t become a slave to sex because you can’t see past the physical pleasure.  Controlling your sexual appetite is also a defense mechanism from taking on all the nonphysical transfers that take place at the same time. Imagine chasing quick physical pleasure but in return getting heavy spiritual burdens and traumas from your partner. Ain't nobody got time for that! Did you sign up to deal with their dramas too? The sucka says “of course I didn’t” while wisdom says “ if I take you sexually, I’m taking on all of you and joining myself to you.” never forget that a man or woman who can keep their pants on always will be valued higher in the eyes of others compared to someone who will give themselves up solely for pleasure. Keep it sacred, and remember that whatever is of high value is never given away carelessly.

Now we all love some good food! Who doesn’t? It's easy to fall into the trap of mindless snacking or constantly eating unhealthy foods, especially when life gets busy. What we have to be conscious of is that what we eat directly impacts our energy levels, mood, and overall well-being. If you lack discipline in your eating habits, you might find yourself battling fatigue, low body confidence, and a lack of focus. Now if you’re too out of shape, hating yourself, and have a cloudy mind, how are you going to see your dream come to fruition? How will it be possible to step into the fullness of your being? It’s self-sabotage. To correctly position ourselves to prosper, we need to establish self-control over our eating habits, so that gluttony finds no root in us. Its amazing how quick pleasures can rob us of a life time of happiness.

The same goes for exercise. Regular physical activity not only benefits your body but also boosts your mental health, confidence and resilience. If you neglect consistent exercise due to a lack of discipline, you're missing out on the opportunity to sharpen your focus, increase your stamina, and build the confidence needed to tackle challenges head on. As a leader, physical fitness plays a significant role in setting an example of self-care and how others view and respect you. It’s not just the look that people gravitate toward, but the discipline that they can admire and mold themselves after.

Think about it. Someone who prioritizes their physical and emotional well-being through disciplined choices is more likely to attract individuals who share similar values and aspirations. If we consciously want to be disciplined in these areas, take heavy note on when your actions don’t align. Make those changes quick so that you get out of that sucka space. As you navigate your journey as a leader and person of influence, remember that discipline isn't just about willpower. It's a spiritual physical strategy to shape your path to success and fulfillment. By making conscious choices to exercise self- discipline in areas like sex, eating, and exercise, you're not just investing in the best version of yourself, but also setting the foundation for effective leadership and meaningful relationships. Stay disciplined, stay focused, and watch as your potential to lead and find true love grow.